![]() The parties would be free, for instance, to decide that the mediators be nominated either by the spouses themselves or by the elders of their respective families. Who should nominate these mediators? God has not specified this so as to allow people full freedom to choose the most convenient arrangement. The procedure to be followed is that two persons, one on behalf of each family, should be nominated to look into the matter together and devise means whereby the misunderstanding between the spouses may be brought to an end. ![]() Whenever the relationship between a husband and a wife starts to break down, an attempt should first be made to resolve the dispute at the family level, before it is aggravated and leads to the disruption of the matrimonial tie. Every dispute can be resolved providing the parties concerned desire reconciliation, and the mediators too are keen to remove the misunderstandings between them and to bring them together.Ħ1. The statement: ‘if they both want to set things right’, may be interpreted as referring either to the mediators or to the spouses concerned. ![]() Allah knows all, is well aware of everything. ![]() If they both want to set things right, Allah will bring about reconciliation between them. (4:35) If you fear a breach between the two, appoint an arbitrator from his people and an arbitrator from her people.
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